...and if its not, what is???
define the cheating or when if ever is it acceptable?
These are questions I've always wondered about.
Never been a "real" cheater, whatever that is.
I've heard, "cheating is when you do something
you know is wrong that you would never do in
front of you significant other". But is that really
cheating? And are their exceptions that make
cheating okay?
Personally I don't ever think its okay unless
you get raped or something and then that't not
really cheating anyway. I think people allow
themselves to b in or stay in certain situations
that result into cheating. For example if your
at a party, and allow your self to get drunk,
and allow yourself to go in the room with
Tina and kiss her or whatever, then its your
fault. Now is kissing someone else cheating?
I think so. Not lil cheek joints, pecks
can be forgiven but full on the mouth kisses
ehhh again if you allow your self to really do
that then I would question strongly the motives
of us and your respect and commitment to our
relationship. Sex to me cannot be forgiven.
But there to me cheating can be forgiven if
for example I can't get to you and won't be
able to for a while and your sexual desires
are kicking in. I wouldn't be THAT upset
if you let some ho suck your penis. As
long as no feelings were involved and
you brought it back clean to me. Under
no circumstances am I saying whenever
your horny and Kayla's not there have
a side hoe to do fulfill that need, I'm saying
on a very rare occasion I would be okay with
it.But uhhh what do yall think is cheating?
