Thursday, May 13, 2010

I'm rambling

Love,Lust and whatevers
in between... 

Wondering how something so obvious gets
so mixed up even when were clearly aware
of the differences.

LOVE
Can't pretend i can give a clear cut
definition of what love is, as far as
relationships are concerned. But
i do know for a fact that one of loves
main factors is the lack of selfishness.
Why? In love you sacrafice for your
partner and don't even see it as sacrafices
most times. Thats why people break up,
because somebody or both people is being
selfish, wether the reasons are falling out
of love, wantingsome one new, wanting to
be single, moving..man the list goes on and
on but always goes back to selfishness.

LUST

 
Lust so often gets mixed up into love.
Why? Mostly because of the intimacy
of sex. Being close and sharing that
connection. Sex is important in
relationships, if you disagree your not
being honest with yourself. But thats not
the point. Im saying it can be an aid for
a relationship, but to bulid the foundation
of you relationship on it leads to the "We
we'rent in love, it was just lust" breakup.
Most times this is what happens until
you get older and can actually appreciate
Love.