Leave em Behind...
Everybody goes though a time where you either have to let your friends
go..or deal with the bullshit or drama or whatever it is that's preventing
you from getting along. Recently though..I've had several friends
who don't realize that its okay to let go. Or maybe their just in denial.
Now me..I'm a very tolerant person. Tolerant of people. If my friend
said something to me that made me mad, I'd either remove myself from
the situation or brush it off. Always was a true friend. I held people down
and helped people out without thinking twice about. It comes natural
for me to take care of my circle. Problem with that of course becomes
that people aren't willing to always do the same. Selfishness is what messes
up relationships. If I'm doing for you but your not doing for me..then fuck
am I hear for. Thats when its time to start cutting people off. Still some
people really rather have "friends" who are really using you, keeping you
around because your useful, then have one or two or no friends at all.
Humans are naturally afraid to be alone. Not I though. If you don't need
me then the hell I need you for? Once the cutting off has been achieved
and you've successfully removed the drama..your problems may or may
not be over. Depending on the reason for cutting whoever off and how
that conversation went, backlash may creep up on you. Shit talking
probably will surface. But remember now, the reason you took
whoever out your life was because you were tired of dealing with
their bullshit right? So retaliation is wasting more of your time, And
its contradicting your decision. Keep it moving.
That's what I try to get through to my friends heads. Hopefully I'm
stating the obvious to you and yours but if not maybe you need to
reevaluate your situation.