How Could You Cheat?
Have you ever cheated? And why did you cheat?
Did you regret it? Did your relationship end after?
I have written post about cheating before.. but obviously
reading back on it, it was coming from a girl whose single's
perspective. Now that I'm in a relationship...as seen in the
photo above. I find I'm a lot less tolerable of things that I
thought were not so bad. So first lets go ahead and re-familiarize
ourselves with what cheating actually is. I believe cheating in its
simplest term is doing something either physically or emotionally
damaging to you relationship, that you wouldn't do in front of your
partner. As over used as the term is, Trust is the foundation of a
relationship. Or any relationship for that matter. That's usually
why you normally only trust your family and then people who
have earned it by sticking around and proving their loyalty as
you do the same for them. That goes for friendships and
relationships. Now if your smart before you give someone the title
of your boyfriend/girlfriend there should be a period of time where
your getting to know each other..long enough to gain each others
trust enough to call each other your own. If not your going to be
trying to gain trust while in the relationship..which usually leads
to break ups or cheating..which lead to break ups. But of course
breaking up is better then cheating. Nobody deserves to get cheated
on. That does nothing but feed your insecurity. To put yourself in
a position where your compromising things is bad enough..and
actually acting on it. Is pure selfishness. There is no excuse to
me for cheating I don't condone it therefore I don't do it. And
the on boy I did cheat on back in 9th grade cheated n me first..
wich doesnt justify it..but I have mad it a point not to ever cheat
from that day fourth.
